Minggu pertama kuliah

Minggu nih dah mula trimester ketiga. Seperti biasa, macam trimester yang lepas, trimester kali nih, I amek 3 subject jugak. 1 core subject - FM (Financial Management) and 2 specialization subject - SE (Software Engineering) & WT (Web Technologies). Buku teks dapat 1 je. 2 lagi kena beli sendiri. Buku SE dah ada, tapi bukan latest edition. Guna buku zaman degree dulukala. Tinggal nak beli buku WT yang comel. Kenapa I cakap comel, sebab dalam banyak-banyak buku teks, buku WT yang paling kecik.

Hari Selasa kelas SE. Pengajarnya Dr. M dari FSKTM. Masa sesi suai kenal Dr. M tanya, kenapa amek MM-IT. Bila dah sampai giliran I, beliau recognize nama I. Mana tak recognize nya, beliau adalah penilai FYP masa degree dulu. Her expectation : I kena dapat A since the subject is my major for my first degree plus helping others if they have any difficulties because of OO approach. My expectation : Memang wajib dapat A and I don't mind helping others because I can learn as well.

Hari Rabu kelas FM. Memula I register section 4 sebab section 3 dah full. Sedih sebab tak sama dengan Kak Lin. Tapi berjaya tukar section bila ada yang drop. Cecepat I tukar section 3. Pengajarnya ex-student GSM, Dr. I, working on projects for gov. Beliau adalah lecturer Emy, Naza, KH & Kak Im tuk trimester lepas. Seems like they having a nightmare with him. But their result, A belaka. His expectation : Baca StarBiz setiap hari. Baca bab 1-7 ulang sekurang-kurangnya 3 kali. My expectation : I nak dapat A for this subject so I kena tuition dengan Emy.

Hari Khamis kelas WT. Pengajarnya juga dari FSKTM, Dr. F. Beliau pernah mengajar subject Struktur Diskret masa diploma dulu. Kalau tak silap, beliau cuti bersalin dan digantikan dengan En. S. Memang beliau tak ingat sebab dah 8 atau 9 tahun. She prefer conducting the class in a computer lab, so while teaching we can directly apply it. Tapi tak tau lagi macamane. Her expectation : She understand that all of us are working adults. So, no need to submit project's report. But, we have to write in for case study, or else we can't answer during examination. My expectation : Kena dapat A untuk subjek ini juga.

Semalam, kami (me, Kak Lin, Emy & KH) pergi dengar taklimat Yayasan Khazanah kat Bangunan Pentadbiran. Kami tak layak memohon sebab kami bukan fulltime student. Sengal!! Kenapa la kat leaflet tuh tak tulis hanya untuk pelajar sepenuh masa. Kalau ikut result, mereka lebih layak sebab mereka punya result tuk sem lepas, 3.5 dan ke atas. Kak Lin & KH 4.0. Tapi takpe. Sem nih I & Emy nak sapu rumah flat. Kan Emy?

Selingan : Tahniah kepada adikku yang amek SPM thn lepas. I tak sangka dia bleh dapat result yang sebegitu. Semoga dia dapat sambung belajar dalam bidang yang dia minat.

New Year's Resolutions - Planning for Positive Change

Are you starting to contemplate your New Year resolutions? Or have you resolved never to make a New Year's resolution again? If the latter, you're not alone. Many people get demoralized when, year after year, they make resolutions that they keep for only a few weeks.

Why is this? After all, we all have the best intentions, and the timing (new year, new start) couldn't be better. A key problem lies in the fact that we place a huge amount of pressure on ourselves. During the last week of December and the first week of January, it can seem that all you hear is, "What are your New Year's resolutions? " "What are you going to work on this year?".

And the focus is on the "what" not the "how." When you are more concerned with the goal you set than on the specifics of how you are going to accomplish it, this can quickly lead to failure.

So, if you resolve to set successful New Year resolutions, read on. Let's focus on how, this year, you can set yourself up to achieve them!

New Year Resolution Mistakes

There are two common mistakes that people tend to make when they start to make their New Year resolutions: They think about what they "should" do, rather than what they really want to do. And worse, they think about what they should stop doing, rather than what they actually want to achieve. "What should I do this year?" "What should I stop doing?", "What do other people suggest I should work on?"

To be successful at any change, you need to really want it. Unless you take the time to think about what it is that you really want you (rather than what you should do or should stop doing), you will invariably end up making resolutions that you are not fully committed to.

Without commitment, you aren't motivated. After the first setbacks or obstacles, you'll probably quit. So the first rule of New Year Resolutions is to only make resolutions that you can commit to – don't make them because it is "the thing to do", or because someone has told you that you should.

The irony of it is that New Year's resolutions have the potential to be very powerful, because making them is such a well recognized practice. Everyone knows that everyone else is setting resolutions. And what a great mutual support network that can provide!

This external motivation and support, along with your internal motivation – your desire to succeed – is what can make the difference between success and failure.

Eight Rules for New Year's Resolutions

Our Eight Rules for New Year's Resolutions will help to set you up for success right from the start. Inevitably you will come up against challenges and road blocks along the way; however by planning ahead and following these rules, you'll be better placed to deal with these problems easily, rather than stumble and quit.

Rule 1: Commit to Your Resolution

Successful resolutions start with a strong commitment to make a change. To succeed, you must believe that you can accomplish what you set out to do, and really want to achieve it. Bolster that belief and desire by doing the following:

1. Choose resolutions that you really want to achieve – and express them in a positive way.
2. Announce your resolution to everyone around you – they will help to hold you accountable.
3. Develop a ceremony to mark the beginning of your commitment – this makes it more "real" and special for you.
4. Don't leave your choice of resolution to the last minute - take time to think about your goals, and make sure that you are mentally committed to them.
5. Questions to ask yourself to determine if you can take ownership of your resolution include:

• Is this resolution my idea or someone else's?
• Does this resolution motivate and invigorate me?
• Does this resolution sit comfortably with other factors in my life, such as my values and long-term plans?
  

6. Remember that there's no reason why your New Year's resolution should take all year to achieve!

Tip:
Imagery is a powerful technique to help you own and commit to your resolutions. Picture yourself having attained your goal. How do you feel? How do you look? Where are you, and what are you doing? How do others react to you? By visualizing yourself in the position you desire, you can bolster your belief that you can achieve your goal, and strengthen your desire to do so.

Rule 2: Be Realistic

The key to achieving goals is continued motivation. If you set goals that are too difficult, you risk failing. Consistently failing at something is profoundly de-motivating (it's no wonder that after a few dismal attempts, some people abandon the idea of New Year's resolutions altogether!)

1. Think carefully before setting the same resolution that you set last year. If it didn't work for you then, make sure that there is good reason that you can achieve it this year. What has changed? Do you have more commitment to make it work? (Be careful, or else you will end up with a repeat performance, and another failed resolution!)
2. Aim lower, rather than too high – aim for something that is challenging, but that you have a good chance of accomplishing. If there is any doubt, err on the side of caution and expand your goal later if you want to keep improving.
3. Don't try to do too much. There is no reason to set more than one or two resolutions. Anymore than that, and you'll lose focus, and lessen your chances of success in any one area.
   

Rule 3: Write It Down

A simple but powerful technique for making your goal feel real is to put your resolution into writing. There is something inside us that creates more commitment and drive when we do this. Consider writing your resolution down on pieces of card, and keeping it where you'll see it often – on your desk, on the fridge door, or in your wallet.

Rule 4: Make a Plan

This is where so many resolutions fall down. Articulating what you want to achieve is one thing; deciding how to do it is quite another. Don't miss out this step!

1. Start by envisioning where you want to be.
2. Then work back along your path to where you are today, writing down all of the milestones that you need to pass in between.
3. Decide what you will do to reach each of these milestones, at least at a high level. (You can plan in more detail as you reach that stage.)
   

Rule 5: Be Flexible

Not everything will work out precisely the way you planned. If you are too rigid in your approach to making resolutions, the first minor obstacle can throw you off your course completely.

1. When creating your plan, try to predict some of the challenges that you will face. Make a contingency plan for the ones that have the highest probability, and mentally prepare yourself for others, just in case they come up.
2. Realize that your resolution itself may change along the way. As long as this is positive, that's not failure, it's reality. As your life changes, so will your goals, dreams, and desires. Remember Rule 1 (Commit to Your Resolution): If you need to make changes to the goal so that you continue to care about it, do so.
   

Tip:
There is no fixed rule saying that a resolution must be set in January. If your circumstances mean that it is better to wait until March, then do so. Resolution making and goal setting are a year round activity.

Rule 6: Use a System of Reminders

It's hard to keep focused on your plan when you have many other commitments, responsibilities, and obligations. The best way to stay on top of your resolution is to develop a formal reminder system.

1. We'll say it again: have your written resolutions visible at as many times of the day as possible. Leave reminders at work, at home, in the car, on your calendar, in your briefcase, and so on.
2. Make sure that the actions you have planned are on your To-Do List (perhaps have a special section for them at the top).
3. Set up reminders in your desktop calendar or subscribe to an email reminder service.
4. Think creatively about how you can remind yourself of your resolutions, so that they stay in the front of your mind.
   

Rule 7: Track Your Progress

You won't know how well you are doing unless you keep track of your progress. This is why your detailed plan is so important. By building excitement around the little successes, you can keep yourself motivated, and keep pushing forwards.

1. Use a journal and regularly make an entry in it regarding your progress.
2. Note when you felt particularly pleased with your efforts.
3. Note when you felt down, or felt like quitting. Over time, look for common themes and decide if there is an underlying issue that needs to be addressed.
4. Record challenges you faced, as well as things that went better than planned.
5. Look back at your entries on a regular basis, and use your past experiences to shape your attitude as you move forward.
6. Ask a friend or family member to call you on pre-defined occasions to discuss your progress.
   

Rule 8: Reward Yourself

Although knowledge of a job well done can be reward enough, we all enjoy a little treat from time to time. Even the most committed person needs a boost, and sometimes that is best accomplished through an external reward.

When you are developing your plan, make a note of a few milestones where you will reward yourself once you have achieved them. But spread them out – you want to make sure that the rewards remain special, and are not too easy to get!

Key Points

New Year's resolutions can be a pain or a pleasure – the choice is yours! If they're a pain, you may resolve never to make a resolution again, so resolve to make them a pleasure! The starting point is to focus on something that you really want and are ready to give your commitment to. Do this and you'll be in a great position to stay motivated and be successful!

As you plan your New Year resolutions, apply the Eight Rules to set yourself up for success.

p/s : Thanks to Mr Mehan for sharing this :)

Maybank2u Scams

Recently, I got few phishing emails from Maybank. But, once I move over my mouse to the link, its a fake maybank2u website. Sila jangan cepat gelabah dan trus klik link tuh. No! No! No! This is the easiest way for them to cilok our money. You can try to login to the real maybank2u & see you still can login & do some transaction. Sila abaikan phising email tuh.. You can click on the image to see the content of the email :)

1st email received on 31st July 2009

2nd email received on 6th August 2009

3rd email received today

Decisions are easy when values are clear

The Choice...
You awaken and immediately decide, it's going to be a great day or you decide that it's not.

You drive to work and the car next to you suddenly cuts you off, you can choose to immediately respond with understanding or with anger.

You get to work and your boss tells you about a change in operations that will happen next week. You can choose to be excited about the opportunity or fearful of the change.

Later in the day, you are asked to lunch by a couple of new guys from another department. You can decide to make new friends and go or be small and kindly decline.

Before you leave for the day, you receive an email about giving to an annual charity campaign. You can choose to give freely or hold on tightly.

When you get home, your toddler asks you to play 'batman and monsters.' You can make the choice to join in the fun or refuse.

At dinner, the dog jumps on your lap again, who let the dog in anyway? You can choose to be patient and calmly let the dog outside or you can show your frustration and fatigue.

After dinner, your oldest child brings in his math test, he earned a 'B.' You can choose to encourage and recognize the effort or tear him down by asking why it wasn't an 'A.'

When you go to work in your shop later in the evening, you can choose to wear PPE and work safely or you can make the choice not to wear it.

At bedtime, as you turn off the light, you can choose to tell your spouse what he/she means to you or you can keep quiet.

What kind of day would it have been if you chose the former in all cases?

What type of day would it have been if you had decided on the latter in all situations?

In these cases there are not any 'rights' or 'wrongs' just simple choices. The hidden secret of life however is that we are a product of the simple decisions we make each moment. Each day we make hundreds if not thousands of choices. We make a conscious choice for happiness, leadership, a smile, love, kindness or generosity. Or we just as easily opt for smallness, fear, anger, resentment, bitterness or hatred.

So, what type of day is it? The choice is up to you...

Clarify Your Values by Brian Tracy

Decide What You Stand For
What are your values? What do you stand for? What are the organizing principles of your life? What are your core beliefs? What virtues do you aspire to, and hold in high regard when you see them demonstrated by others? What will you not stand for? What would you sacrifice for, suffer for, and even die for? These are extremely important questions that are only asked by about three percent of the population, and that small minority tends to be the movers and shakers in every society.

Write Out Your Key Values
When I first began this values clarification exercise some years ago, I wrote out a list of 163 qualities that I aspired to. I think I eventually came up with every virtue, value or positive descriptive adjective that referred to personality and character in the dictionary. And I agreed with all of them. I felt that they were all important and I wanted to incorporate every single one of them into my character.

Focus On A Few Core Beliefs
But then reality set in. I realized that it is very hard to learn even one new quality, or to change even one thing about myself, let alone dozens of things. So I scaled down my ambitions and began narrowing the values down to a small number that I could manage and work with. Once I had settled on about five core beliefs, I was then able to get to work on myself and start making some progress in character development.

Select Your Five Key Values
You should do the same. You should write down the five values that you feel are the most important for you to live by. Once you have those five values, you then organize them in order of priority. Which is the most important value in your hierarchy of values? Which would be second? Which would be third, and so on?

Learn To Make Better Decisions
Every choice or decision you make is based on your values. Whenever you decide between alternatives, you invariably choose the alternative that you value the most. Because you can only do one thing at a time, everything you do is a demonstration of what you consider to be the most important at that moment. Therefore, organizing your values in an order of priority is the starting point of personal strategic planning. It is only when you are clear about what you value, and in what order, that you are capable of planning and organizing the other activities of your life.

Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do immediately to put these ideas into action:

First, clarify your core beliefs and your unifying principles. Write them down and compare your life today with the values that are really important to you. How are you doing?

Second, organize your values in order of their importance to you. Which of your values is most important? Which is second? And so on. Do your current choices reflect this order of values

p/s : I just wanna share with u guys what I've learned in my OB class and how I wish Bee were sitting besides me in the class.. **sigh**

Jenis-Jenis Isteri Yang Cantik

Isteri yang cantik itu ada beberapa bahagian:
1) cantik di mata suami, tidak cantik di mata orang lain
2) tidak cantik di mata suami, tetapi cantik di mata orang lain
3) cantik di mata suami, juga cantik di mata orang lain
4) tidak cantik di mata suami, tidak cantik di mata orang lain

adapun yang pertama: beruntunglah sang suami itu. kerana dia akan selamat dari sifat cemburu orang lain terhadap isterinya. dan beruntunglah sang isteri. kerana akan sentiasa disayangi oleh suaminya dan selamat dari gangguan orang lain.

yang kedua: keadaan ini agak bahaya. kerana isteri akan kehilangan minat suaminya. tambahan lagi isterinya terdedah kepada kegilaan orang lain. suami pula tidak cemburu.

yang ketiga pula: keadaan ini juga tampak bahaya. suami terpaksa berjaga-jaga dengan kegilaan orang lain terhadap isterinya. suami pasti mempunyai kecemburuan yang tinggi.penatlah sang suami.di pihak isteri, beruntung. cintanya, sayangnya akan terus dipertahankan oleh suaminya dari dirampas oleh orang lain. menjadi kayu ukur kecintaan suaminya kepadanya.

yang terakhir itu: suami tiada berminat dengan isterinya. namun dia tenang kerana tiada ancaman cemburu dari orang lain. di pihak isteri, dia akan kehilangan kasih dan perhatian seoarang suami namun selamat dari buruan orang lain.

walau apapun pandangan di atas, jika masing-masing pasangan menjadikan agama sebagai kayu ukur, maka akan bahagialah suami dan isteri. akhlak suami dan isteri itu terkesan dengan agama. sabar, jujur, ikhlas, pemurah, pemaaf, memahami dan sebagainya. begitu juga keputusan-keputusan dalam rumahtangga yang juga terhasil dari kefahaman agama.

Credited to Mrs. Joy

Rejab datang lagi

Sblm nih dah pernah buat post psal bulan Rejab. Copy-paste je yang lepasnya. Renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal.. :P

Bulan Rejab kembali lagi. Ia merupakan bulan yang sangat dimuliakan di dalam Islam. Banyak hadis Rasulullah S.A.W. yang telah diriwayatkan oleh para sahabat Baginda mengenai kelebihan bulan Rejab, bulan ketujuh di dalam kalendar Islam. Rejab bermaksud ta'azim (kebesaran, keagungan, kemuliaan) kerana Allah S.W.T. akan melimpahkan rahmat-Nya, kemurahan-Nya dan Ruangan Bimbingan Rohani kali ini menyorot fadhilat bulan Rejab dan beberapa hadis Rasulullah S.A.W. berkenaan dengannya.

Amalan terbaik di dalam bulan Rejab ini ialah berpuasa. Maksud hadis Rasulullah S.A.W. tentang kelebihan berpuasa di dalam bulan Rejab adalah seperti berikut:

Puasa 1 hari - Seperti berpuasa 40 tahun dan mendapat keredhaan Allah serta syurga tertinggi.
Puasa 2 hari - mendapat kemuliaan besar daripada Allah dan dilipatgandakan pahalanya.
Puasa 3 hari - dijauhkan dugaan dunia oleh Allah, dijadikan sebuah parit panjang yang menghalangnya ke neraka.
Puasa 4 hari - diselamatkan daripada siksaan akhirat kelak serta fitnah Dajjal.
Puasa 5 hari - aman dari azab kubur.
Puasa 6 hari - dibangkitkan dari kubur dengan muka bercahaya.
Puasa 7 hari - Allah mengunci 7 pintu neraka jahannam baginya.
Puasa 8 hari - Allah membuka 8 pintu syurga baginya.
Puasa 9 hari - keluar dari kuburnya lalu menyeru "Laailahaillallah" dan tidak ditolak dia dari memasuki syurga.
Puasa 10 hari - Allah memperkenankan semua permintaan dan hajatnya, dijadikan hamparan perhentian di titian Siratul Mustaqim setiap satu batu dan dijadikan 2 sayap untuk terbang seperti kilat di titian Siratul Mustaqim.
Puasa 13 hari - Saidina Ali berkata bahawa fadilatnya seperti puasa 3,000 tahun.
Puasa 14 hari - Saidina Ali berkata bahawa fadilatnya seperti puasa 10,000 tahun.

Puasa 15 hari - Allah mengampunkan semua dosanya yang lalu di samping menggantikan amalan kejahatan dengan amalan kebaikan. Saidina Ali berkata bahawa fadilatnya seperti puasa 100,000 tahun.
Puasa 16 hari - dapat melihat wajah Allah di dalam syurga dan orang pertama menziarahi Allah di dalam syurga.
Puasa 19 hari - Dibina sebuah mahligai di hadapan mahligai Nabi Allah Ibrahim dan Nabi Allah Adam.
Puasa 20 hari - Allah mengampunkan segala dosanya yang lalu, dan melakukan amalan baik dengan baki umurnya.

Sesiapa yang berpuasa 3 hari dalam bulan Rejab dan beribadat pada malamnya seperti dia berpuasa 3,000 tahun, diampunkan baginya 70 dosa-dosa besar setiap hari, ditunaikan 70 hajat ketika keluar nyawa dari jasadnya, 70 hajat ketika di dalam kuburnya, 70 hajat ketika terbang suhuf (ketika Al-Quran dinaikkan ke langit), 70 hajat ketika ditimbang amalannya di Mizan, dan 70 hajat ketika melalui titian Siratul Mustaqim.

Berpuasa pada 27 Rejab (Hari Israk dan Mikraj) seperti berpuasa 60 bulan pahalanya, jika disertai dengan sedekah seumpama puasa 1,000 tahun.

Dapat meminum air sungai yang dinamakan Rejab yang mana airnya lebih putih dari susu, lebih manis daripada manisan, lebih dingin dari salji.

Setiap umat Islam yang berpuasa di bulan Rejab seperti mengerjakan ibadat seumur hidupnya. Tambahan bersedekah seperti beribadat seribu kali haji dan umrah. Dibina untuknya seribu mahligai dengan seribu bilik dan seribu bidadari, lebih cantik daripada matahari seribu kali.

Sedekah di bulan Rejab seumpama sedekah seribu dinar, dituliskan kepada tiap-tiap helai bulu romanya seribu kebajikan, diangkat seribu darjat dan dihapuskan seribu kejahatan serta dijauhkan daripada api Neraka.

Orang yang lemah dari berpuasa di bulan Rejab hendaklah bersedekah tiap-tiap hari, sekurang-kurangnya sebuku roti.

Kelebihan lain bulan Rejab:
1.Di dalam bulan lain Allah membalas amalan umat-Nya 10 kali, tetapi di dalan bulan Rejab Allah akan membalas amalan umat-Nya 70 kali.
2. Sesiapa meminta ampun (beristighfar) pada pagi dan petang 70 atau 100 kali di dalam bulan Rejab, diharamkan tubuhnya daripada api neraka.
3. Rejab bulan Allah, Sya'aban bulan Rasulullah. S.A.W, Ramadhan bulan umat Rasulullah S.A.W
4. Rejab adalah bulan menabur benih, Sya'aban bulan menyiram tanaman manakala Ramadhan bulan menuai.
5. Amalan di dalam bulan Rejab menyucikan badan, Sya'aban menyucikan hati manakala Ramadhan menyucikan roh.
6. Rejab adalah bulan maghfirah (keampunan), Sya'aban bulan syafaat manakala Ramadhan bulan menggandakan kebajikan.
7. Rejab adalah bulan taubat, Sya'aban bulan muhibbah manakala Ramadhan bulan dilimpahi pahala amalan yang banyak.
8. Pahala amalan baik di dalam bulan Rejab diganda 70 pahala, Sya'aban diganda 700 pahala dan Ramadhan diganda 1,000 pahala.

Beberapa amalan lain yang baik dilakukan dalam bulan Rejab:
1. Menyucikan diri daripada dosa dengan bertaubat dan memohon ampun
2. Membersihkan hati yang lalai dan alpa melalui amalan istighfar dan zikir
3. Mendekatkan diri kepada Allah dengan menunaikan solat
4. Memohon keselamatan dan kesejahteraan dengan berselawat dan berdoa kepada-Nya
5. Menginsafkan diri dengan membaca kisah teladan perjuangan Rasulullah S.A.W. dan sirah Islam lain.

Peristiwa penting yang telah berlaku dalam bulan Rejab:
1. Israk dan Mikraj (27 Rejab)
2. Solat 5 waktu difardukan ke atas umat Islam (Malam Israk Mikraj)
3. Perang Tabuk terjadi di dalam tahun ke-9 Hijrah.

Secara ringkasnya, Israk dan Mikraj adalah sebuah peristiwa di mana Nabi Muhammad S.A.W telah di"israk"kan (dibawa berjalan) dari Kota Mekah ke Baitul Muqaddis serta di"mikraj"kan (dibawa naik ke atas) ke Sidratul Muntaha untuk mengadap Allah S.W.T di mana Solat 5 waktu telah difardukan ke atas umat Islam melalui Rasulullah S.A.W. Semuanya berlaku di dalam satu malam sahaja. Firman Allah SWT:

Maha Suci Allah yang telah memperjalankan hambaNya pada satu malam dari Masjidil Haram ke Masjidil Aqsa yang telah Kami berkati sekelilingnya agar Kami perlihatkan kepadanya sebahagian dari tanda-tanda kebesaran Kami. Sesungguhnya Dia adalah Maha Mendengar lagi Maha Mengetahui - Petikan dari Surah Al Israa ayat 1.

DOA BULAN REJAB:
Ya Allah, berkatilah kami pada bulan Rejab dan bulan Sya'aban serta sampaikanlah kami ke bulan Ramadan. Aku bermohon keampunan Allah yang Maha Agung dan tiada Tuhan melainkan Dia, yang hidup, yang berdiri sendiri dan aku bertaubat kepadaNya.

Ya Allah, Engkaulah Tuhanku, tidak ada Tuhan yang patut disembah kecuali Engkau yang mencipta aku. Aku adalah hambaMu dan aku dalam genggamanMu. Aku dalam perjanjian (beriman dan taat) kepadaMu sekadar kemampuan yang ada padaku.

Aku berlindung kepada-Mu dari kejahatan yang (mungkin) aku lakukan. Aku mengakui atas nikmat yang engkau berikan kepadaku dan mengakui dosa-dosaku. Kerana itu aku memohon keampunan-Mu dan sesungguhnya tiada yang dapat mengampuni dosa seseorang kecuali Engkau Ya-Allah.

Istighfar paling baik dalam bulan Rejab:
Maksudnya: Aku bermohon keampunan Allah yang Maha Agung dan tiada Tuhan melainkan Dia, yang hidup, yang berdiri sendiri dan aku bertaubat kepadaNya.

Kesimpulannya, bulan Rejab merupakan sebuah bulan yang banyak keistimewaannya yang dijanjikan oleh Allah S.W.T kepada umat-Nya, kerana Rejab adalah bulan Allah. Pintu rahmat terbuka luas kepada umat-Nya untuk bertaubat dan memohon ampun di atas dosa-dosa yang lepas. Namun begitu, suka diingatkan bahawa kita perlu mengerjakan segala amalan yang dituntut ini dengan sifat ikhlas, rendah diri dan tawwaduk agar ganjaran yang akan diperolehi itu ada keberkatannya

p/s : Baru je plan nak puasa Rejab.. Cik Mat Poi dtg plak. The best part klau pkai PB tak kan sedar bila Cik Mat Poi nak dtg. Xde rasa sakit-sakit. Thumbs up.. I loike..

Pintu Rezeki

Hadis nabi menjelaskan bahawa 9/10 pintu rezeki adalah daripada perniagaan. Manakala 1/10 lagi pintu rezeki adalah daripada makan gaji. Tapi ramai ke yang memilih untuk mendapatkan 9/10 pintu rezeki itu?

1. Ada yang memilih untuk mendapatkan 9/10 pintu rezeki dan meninggalkan terus pintu rezeki 1/10 itu.
   
2. Ada pula yang masih selesa dengan pintu rezeki 1/10 dan takut untuk mengorak langkah pintu rezeki 9/10 lagi.
   
3. Ada juga yang mengambil 10/10 pintu rezeki itu.

Bagi kes yang pertama, kebanyakkan orang kita, akan mengambil keputusan untuk berhenti kerja makan gaji dan memilih untuk menjalankan perniagaan.

Bagi kes yang kedua, kebanyakkan orang kita juga, selesa dengan kerja makan gaji sahaja. Tapi selesa itu, adakah benar-benar selesa? atau setakat cukup-cukup makan? dan takut untuk memulakan perniagaan - Macamana kalau gagal? Sekali gagal tidak bermakna gagal selama-lamanya dan jatuh bangun adalah lumrah dalam perniagaan.

Bagi kes yang ketiga, kurang orang kita yang memilihnya. Saya tabik pada mereka ini. Mereka juga mempunyai 24jam sehari, sama seperti mereka pada kes pertama dan kes kedua yang mana kalau bekerja makan gaji 8pg-5ptg dan masa selebihnya digunakan untuk perniagaan. Tiada istilah "takde masa atau aku bizi".

Tapi dengan memulakan perniagaan, contohnya perniagaan cupcakes, itu baru 1/9 pintu rezeki perniagaan dan masih ada 8/9 lagi. Mungkin dengan perniagaan cupcakes kita boleh mengajar membuat cupcakes, menjual peralatan-peralatan membuat cupcakes dan sebagainya. Itu yang dikatakan 9/10 pintu rezeki dan kita mestilah kreatif untuk mencipta perniagaan.

Inilah yang dikatakan orang berniaga. Otak orang berniaga memang kreatif. Hari ini saya faham kenapa orang kaya terus kaya dan orang miskin terus miskin. Orang kaya terus menerus berfikir untuk terus membuka kesemua 9 pintu nya. Sedangkan orang yang belum kaya terus menerus membuka satu pintu yang dianggapnya sebagai sembilan pintu itu.

Dalam bahasa yang lebih senang dan jelas… jika kita ingin menjadi orang kaya atau orang senang, kita mesti mempunyai lebih daripada satu pintu reseki atau lebih dari satu pekerjaan. Tidak kiralah siapa kita. Makan gaji atau berniaga sendiri tetapi mesti ada DUA, TIGA, EMPAT, ..., SEMBILAN cabang sumber pendapatan. Bagaimana cara sumber pendapatan itu carilah sendiri. Kail sudah diberi… umpannya carilah sendiri… barulah boleh dapat ikannya.

Good news & bad news

Good news or bad news first? Hmm.. good news first.. :) Well, I just received my 1st cheque from Hai-o Marketing. Alhamdulillah. Dlm pale otak dah plan nak simpan tuk masa depan.. :) But then, here come the bad news.. :(

Huk..huk..huk.. What to do?? I dont have any option to pay for the fees.. and thanks God, my good news will become the life saver.. :P I have to KIV Bee's birthday present.. Perhaps next cheque, I'll get it for you darling..